Heal a Relationship - Dowsing Ceremony

Do you need to heal a relationship with a lover, family member or friend? In this post I will share a simple Dowsing Ceremony for sending love and healing to a relationship. You need a pendulum and two candles, if you do not have a pendulum I will share how you can make one below.

You can use this Ceremony to heal any relationship even when there is physical distance or the person has passed over. You can even send healing to a part of yourself, as your inner feminine or inner child.

TIMING: Full Moon, New Moon.

You need!

*2 Candles. Tall candles or spell candles. Choose a colour that matches your intention. white (healing and peace),blue (communication) pink (love), green(love and healing), purple (transcendence and spirituality). Also make sure the burning time of the candles is not more then 1 hour. If you only have tall candles that has a very long burning time, you can also mark a place on each candle that represents 1 h with a needle. And let that be your end. And if you only have tea light candles you can use these too. Carve both of your names and birth dates into the two candles separately, one candle represents you and the other candle represents the other person.

*A pendulum. If you don't own one yet, you can make one. Use a string that is at least 50 cm long and tie a heavy weight like a coin or crystal on one end. You can also use a necklace.

*Incense to clear the space.

*One more candle to light separately for your Spirit Guides.

*Optional. Use flowers or crystals to make a grid around the two main candles, in a circle or maybe even in a heart shape. Include photos of you and the other person.

Setup.

Place the two main candles at least 50 cm or more apart. So that the pendulum can swing freely between the candles. You can place the third candle for your spirit guides anywhere but not in between the two other candles.

Do like this!

*Smudge all of your items. Light your candle for your spirit guides and say out loud: Spirit Guides and Ancestors I welcome you to this healing ceremony. Please guide and protect me as I heal the relationship between me and X.

*Light the candle that represents you and say out loud: I light this candle for, (name and date of birth.)

*Light the candle that represents the other person and say out loud: I light this candle for, (name and date of birth).

*Take your Pendulum, put your elbow on the table and hold it in between the two candles and state your intention. Say out loud: May there be healing and peace between us.

*Let the pendulum swing between the two candles while you repeat your desires. You can use words, visualize images, send feelings, healing light or sing words that represent how you wish to heal the relationship between you.

*Sit like this with the pendulum swinging in between the candles for at least 5 minutes or more.

*When you are done with the pendulum. You can let the candles burn down on their own time. You can perform your own divination, write in your diary and meditate while you watch the candles burn down.

*When the two main candles are done. Say out loud: The healing ceremony is now complete thank you spirit guides and ancestors for supporting me. May the results of this healing ceremony serve the highest good of all souls involved. Read the candle wax to determine the outcome of the ceremony.

Thank you for reading. This is a beautiful ceremony. That can bring lightness and healing to your relationships. Please like and share to show your support.

With Love, Shanti Joy